Monday, March 2, 2009

The "Never Thoughts" of Motherhood...


I never thought...

*It would be so tempting to just wear pajamas or yoga pants all day long and not get ready for the day

*I'd forget to brush my teeth in the morning so many times! (while I was on maternity leave...not now!)

*Losing weight would be so hard...maybe I'm one of those that lose weight only AFTER she stops breastfeeding? Or I might have to lay off the chocolate. Either way...

*I would be a PRO at sleeping while sitting UP! I could never do it on the plane (and believe me, I've been on a lot of LONG flights!) Guess when it's 4am and you're feeding the baby, you're just so tired, it just happens. And for me...ALL THE TIME. I need to rethink how to stay awake, because I'll wake up 2 hours later and I've got her on my lap still, and we're both sleeping! Glad the crick in my neck goes away by mid morning though :)

*I'd be so paranoid about SIDS and RSV. I'm always checking her to make sure she's breathing!

*I'd wish every day that my child...remains a child...a baby preferrably!

*It would be so much harder to resist buying clothes for HER than it is to buy stuff for ME (although, I've totally resisted. My mother-in-law, on the other hand...she has a problem. Claire already has 3 swimsuits...)

*That even though I have to make "sacrifices" because now I have a baby... (can't do certain things, go certain places as often, accept invitations to do things, etc.) I couldn't care less. Nothing is a sacrifice really. Having her is better than anything she makes more difficult for me to do.

*That I'd be paranoid about my milk supply and CONSTANTLY thinking about it and thinking about the next feeding, etc.

Motherhood definitelychanges things!

4 comments:

Kika VilaNova said...

It will change for me too.
Did you get the invite to my baby shower? It was sabado, I was hoping to see you and Claire there, we need to see each other, minha filha!!

beijus beijus, te amo!!

Heather said...

You are such a cute mom, Janessa! Claire is beautiful! :) I'll have to come meet her sometime soon. :)

Wendy and Michael said...

Love the poem! It is amazing how you can't fully comprehend how you or your life will change with a new baby! Isn't it the best! And by the way you look Fabulous! You won’t lose the weight overnight – I didn’t lose it over 3 years and I’m prego again! You don’t have much to lose just give it a few more months and you will be back in tip top shape!

Juliann said...

So, so true. Love all your "never thoughts".